I've been doing blog challenges with only mini life updates lately because there wasn't anything really exciting to report lately. Till now :) I had promised that if anything happened, good or bad, I would blog about it. So here goes!
As I've mentioned here and there I have been dating a GREAT guy. I never gave him a codename, because I wasn't sure what to call him yet. But his codename should be "Mr. Wonderful" because that's what he is :)
Last night Mr. Wonderful and I decided to take the leap of faith, and become "official". That's right ladies and gents, after nearly 7 months of singlehood, I am now off the market. So sorry to disapoint all those other fellas out there, har har.
It's going to be interesting, this adjustment. I had been in a relationship for so long, nearly 9 years, and then was just finally getting used to being single, something I had never really experience before (and it's not nearly as bad as I thought it would be). To now I'm in a relationship again. I hope I remember how these things work ;)
But I have a feeling that this relationship is going to be unlike any other I've ever had. Infintely better. I've only been in 3 relationships previously, so I don't have toooo much to compare to, but already, I can tell it will be different. Because he is a GOOD guy. No make that a great guy, no make that a wonderful guy, no make that an amazing guy :)
It's funny how things work out. Who knew that by me signing up for a silly dating webstite, okcupid, and answering a bunch of personality questions and then browsing around trying to find someone I had a good percentage match with... and there were quite a few 70's and 80's percentage matches... but then BAM I saw his profile with a 90's percent match... clicked it... saw how cute he was... saw how much in common we had so I shot off a lil message. Something dumb like hey we are a high match just thought I'd say hi. Who knew that it would lead to this :)
But I think I could tell from the first date that he was something special, that WE would have something special. It was just like puzzle pieces clicking into place. Everything just felt "right". I can't really explain it. It's never happened that way before for me. And if you've never experienced it, you probably couldn't understand either.
Everything just feel so perfect with him. I told him once that when I was a little girl I used to picture what my "perfect dream guy" was like. What he would do, what he would say, how he would treat me.
And I told him he did all those things. The way he looks at me, the way he kisses me, the way he runs his fingers through my hair, the way he caresses my face, I would never need words to know how he feels... his actions speak loud and clear.
But hearing the words "I Love You" was defintely nice. Albeit shocking. I wasn't expecting him to say that last night.
I had known for a few weeks now that I was developing serious feelings for him, but I didn't expect him to say anything along those lines yet. Maybe because in a way I still am shocked that someone as good as him could actually want someone like me, with so much baggage. But I'd like to think that despite my baggage, he thinks I'm worth it. And based off of recent developments, I'd say that is the case :)
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