Sex, sex, is all I heard...

Ah now it's time to tell you about the first failed relationship post my breakup with the soon to be ex-husband (douchebag, if you will).

Again, we will use codenames here and this lovely individual deserves the title "THE PLAYER".

I met this gem off a dating website... gasp, yes I know, I stooped to that level, haha. But honestly, where else am I supposed to meet men? With 2 kiddos at home it's not like I'm hitting the bars or clubs every weekend. And I defintely don't want to date a coworker... so where pray tell, are all the available men to be found, if not online?

Anyways I met him off POF, or as it should be called, POS, since thats the type of men it seems to attract.

The player lied about pretty much everything on his profile, from his height, to whether or not he smoked, to what kind of relationship he was looking for. At the time of course I was unaware of this.

But yes, he looked alright from his profile so I agreed to talk to him, and eventually we met. Things seemed great at first, he seemed like a gentleman, a sweetheart.

So I fell for it hook line and sinker when he said he was tired of casual dating, and wanted a serious relationship. That the last thing he was looking for was a "hookup/bootycall".

First date went great and seemed to reaffirm my belief that he was the real deal.
Fast forward to the SECOND date, yes, SECOND date, and he's trying to get me naked!
I should know by now that if a guy wants to get you in bed by the 2nd date, he does not actually want a relationship with you, he's just using you!

But, again, that hopeless romantic in me took over and let myself believe that he was just so attracted to me that he just couldn't help but want me. And yes, theres some sort of thrilling power in that.

Although we jumped into bed way too soon, things still seemed to be on the up and up relationship wise. He had me over all the time, introduced me to his mom, cooked me dinner, and when I spent the night with him he held me all night long. I had so missed falling asleep in someones arms.

Fast forward 3 weeks later... he's at a  party that 2 of my friends happened to be at. I had spoken of my relationship with THE PLAYER to these 2 friends, so they knew who HE was and that I was "with" him.

So imagine their (and my) surprise when he tries to get one of those friends to have sex with him! I wasn't there, so I don't know all the details, but basically when confronted about his relationship with me, it was said that I "didn't matter" and he denied ever sleeping with me. NICE!

Needless to say, that relationship, up in flames. Luckily I didn't get too emotionally invested in him, but it was still a pisser! Now after the fact, in talking to some of his friends, I now learn that he has always been a "player" that he was known as a flavor of the week kind of guy. Wow... I can sure pick em, eh?

And now again, can't post his picture, but I can leave you with a picture of someone who shares the same hairstyle as him...