Whatever helps you swallow the truth

Now I know techinically this blog is public, and anyone that wanted to, could read it. And I don't mind that... I figure your average person will read a few words and see that it wasn't what they were looking for and move on.

The only forum that I have posted the link to this blog is my facebook, and only people I consider friends can view my facebook, and since I don't tag my blog posts anywhere else, 99% of the people that read my blog, I know are my facebook friends.

But I notice on my stats that someone did a google search of my name... and of course this blog will pop up on that search... curious and curiouser that someone is searching for me... who could it be??

I think I have the answer to that question when I read this "anonymous" comment left by "someone". I didn't post the comment to the blog the comment was left, not because it bothers me, but because it was left anonymously.

I feel everyone is entitled to their opinon, and I won't censor comments, as long as the person doesn't leave them anonymously, that's just stupid. If you have an opinion, don't hide your identity!

Upon reading the comment... I am 80% sure it was left by THE HOMEWRECKING WHORE. I can't think of one other person on this planet that would have something like this to say to me... but, I guess we will never know for sure, will we?

Just because I think it's amusing, I will post "her" comment here, just so we can dissect it!

"He's barely been moved out two weeks! Sheesh. You have no idea what it's like to be a single mom - yet! Boo frickin' Hoo! Grow some back bone and quit whining! Quit calling them names around your kids... they might pick up on it and you'll look like a white trash single mom and nobody will wonder why he left you!"

First of all, I know quite well what it is like to be a single mom, because despite what you say about him only being barely moved out two weeks... ask ANYBODY... friends... family (even his own mother) will attest to the fact that he wasn't exactly father of the year, and really didn't help out with the kids. I was a single mom LOOOONG before I was ever truly a single mom. Getting him to spend time with his kids... change their diapers... wake up in the middle of the night with them... was near impossible. He's a selfish person and that translates into him being a pretty shitty father.

Second of all... guess what.... my blog... my words... my choice... if I want to whine, cry, whatever... I think I'm entitled. I went into the marriage, and motherhood expecting the best... and been given the worst... Had I known what kind of person The Douchebag was and the things he is capable of... I would have never ever married him. And as for having backbone, I finally do have backbone... I was finally able to say no to The Douche when he asked me to take him back for the bazillionth time. I thank the Homewrecker from the bottom of my heart that she gets to deal with his cheatin' ways now... not me! I'm only angry about how this is affecting my kids... and how he's not living up to his responsibilities.

Third of all... believe it or not... I don't call them names around my kids... they may have heard some things that my friends have said... but that's not my fault, everyone is entitled to their opinion. I actually try to reinforce my kids belief that their father loves them and has not abandonded them, even though I know thats what they think and feel, and why Charlie keeps saying things like why did Daddy leave me and I don't like "HER" because she stole my daddy from me. I'm actually a good mom who puts my kids above all else... unlike the Homewrecking Whore who is content to spend the majority of her time with her new boytoy, instead of her kids... I can't imagine only spending a couple hours a day, every other week with my kids... I feel sorry for those kids! They must hate her and hate The Douchebag for stealing their mom away from them. Wow... they really are two peas in a pod lol.

And lastly... I am anything but white trash... that is just someones feable attempt to offend me because I've hit a little too close to home to the truth in my analysis of everything. Truth hurts though, doesn't it? And there is nothing wrong with me... the only reason he "left" me was because I was finally cracking down on his cheating ways and he knew his days with me were numbered... and so he latched onto the first vulnerable, dimwitted piece of ass he could find. I feel sorry for her... truly... I do... but evidently, she deserves it, so I can't feel too bad... but I really can't wait till she either catches him in bed with someone else, or comes home to a note saying sorry met someone better... bye... and then I will laugh my ass off and do my little dance and say "I TOLD YA SO!" And just so you know... ANONYMOUS...

Ah... thank you Anonymous (most likely The Homewrecking Whore) for helping me snap me out of my funk...